13 Reasons Why Women Cheat In Relationships; NO.8 Will Shock You
Cheating has become rampant nowadays unlike before. Women of the old days could not cheat on their spouses. It used to be men.
These days married women cheat on their husbands and some of the reasons attributed to this act include:
1. Overconfidence;
Some women believe in themselves so much that when a man who is not the husband tries to get closer to them they don’t resist or mark boundaries because they believe that they cannot cheat on their spouses. Before they know it, things get out of hand and they find themselves in the wrong.
Don’t be overconfident in your self-control. Mark and keep boundaries.
2. Alcoholism;
Unlike before many women drink alcohol nowadays more than men. They are fond of clubbing and parting especially the working class.
After losing their sober minds to alcohol they engage in sex with other men and before they know they are cheating on their spouses.
3. Past Experiences
Having multiple sex partners before marriage can make one cheat on her husband. This is because from the experience you have been cheating by having several partners at once.
If one doesn’t unlearn that behaviour she is likely to cheat in marriage.
4. Ambitions
Many women unfortunately are becoming more ambitious day by day. And because they want so much to succeed in life, they are willing to do anything within their powers to attain that success even if it means sleeping with the boss.
The best and sweetest achievements are those that are earned honourably and through hard work.
5. Close Friends;
Not all close friends are bad, no, only that if your so-called close friends are not happily married but you are they will advise you wrongly so that you end up ruining your marriage and be like them.
If your close friends are single and bitter or are married and cheating on their spouses they are most likely to mislead you or make you feel like cheating is not bad. Choose your close friends wisely.
6. Attention;
If as a man you don’t give attention to your woman and neglect her she will be seeking that attention elsewhere.
When a woman is neglected, she feels uncared for and this causes emotional detachment from the husband. At this point little attitude of concern from another man will make them run into their hands, the rest follows.
7. Feeling Unworthy;
If a woman was abused sexually in the past, she harbours feelings of unworthiness. These feelings make one have low self-respect and one may engage in self hurting behaviour which may include having or engaging in casual sex.
8. Payback;
Some women upon being fed with lies that the husband is having an affair with other women, without questioning him or having proof they decide to take revenge. It is the worst way of reacting to a situation. By taking revenge you don’t solve a problem. Find other better means to address the situation.
9. Social Distance;
Married but not living together and not being able to meet for a long time. The one may feel lonely and this may make her look for a close person who can fill her emptiness or loneliness. If work cannot permit you to stay under the same roof don’t be away from each other for more than a week.
10. Close relation with the former;
At times past relationships may pose a threat to your marriage. Women tend to stay in touch with their ex-boyfriends. If this connection is not stopped, you may get so comfortable with your ex and before you know it you find yourselves reviewing the old good days.
12. Social Media;
Cheating can start slowly through emotions. You start by getting attached to a man you are chatting with on social media. Little by little you get emotionally attached to them.
You plan to meet for coffee and then one thing leads to another. Online flirting is a threat to any marriage. Keep off such habits.
13. Marrying the wrong person;
Who do you know that you are married to the wrong person? It is simple, if you marry someone for the wrong reasons then technically you are marrying the wrong person.
Marrying someone because of money, family pressure or you got pregnant accidentally among many other reasons is wrong. This is because you may get tired of pretending to love him and end up cheating on him.
Cultivate love for your spouse or fit-out of that marriage instead of cheating.
