Five Pillars Of A Healthy Relationship In Marriage.

Marriage is not a bed of roses as they say but you can make a bed of roses in marriage if you want. The following guidelines will help you in building a healthy relationship with your spouse.

1. Friendship

Your spouse should be your best. Friendship is an important aspect in marriage as it helps in strengthening the bond between the two of you. Remember you are two halves brought or put together to complete each other. There is other person who qualifies to be your best friend other than your better half.

2. Trust

Trust to many people is just a word which holds little value if at all it holds anything in a relationship. Trust in this context means that what you tell your spouse or what he/she tells you holds and it is the absolute truth. We trust that whatever they do wherever they are is right and are always mindful of our happiness. Remember trust is like a piece of glass if broken it cannot be mended to it’s initial state. Once the trust is broken in any relationship life will never be the same again.

3. Communication

Stop talking to your partner or your spouse and start communicating. Communication is different from talking but most people don’t know that. When having any ideas discuss it with your better half so that you can get his/her opinion. This will not only strengthen your bond but will also prevent any misunderstanding from arising. Any form of misunderstanding is a silent killer to any relationship.

4. Respect

Respect is a two way thing. Wife submit yourself to your husband and respect him. Husband should also respect your wife for her to respect you. Working ladies remember you can be The BIG boss in your office but at home your are a wife and a mother but never a boss.

5. Love

Love comes after friendship, trust, communication and respect. Who hates his/her friend? Do you respect your enemy? Honesty speaking love is a strong emotional feeling which develops naturally based on some situations and circumstances. After considering all the aspects above love for each other will be strong and can overcome all the obstacles.

Conclusion

A healthy relationship is built by the two parties involved. It doesn’t come out naturally but it is built from scratch. Any challenges encountered along the way should be dealt with by the two people involved no third parties.