Why Most University Relationships End Up In Painful Break-Up.
Most of the University relationships end up failing in painful breakups. It is surprising how young people fall in love in mysterious ways especially in universities.
One of the main challenges affecting university students is relationships. There is too much heartbreak in our universities causing too much emotional damage to our students both male and female.
Why do these relationships fail? Here are concrete reasons why university relationships fail.
1. Fancy dating – (trying period)
Most of the students on campuses are usually in a transition period from adolescence to adulthood. At this stage, a male student wants to try out dating and explore all categories of girls and vice versa.
As a result, they end up heartbreaking each other and the same happens to the female student.
2. Lack of accountability
Most of the relationships in the university involve dating partners. Parents and relatives and even the clergy are not aware.
This makes it easier for any of the partners to exist from the relationship because it was kept a secret.
3. The hookup syndrome
Most of the relationships on campuses start from hookups where a friend connects another friend and dating starts.
Such a relationship ends up failing and one of the partners is heartbroken.
4. Lak of “capital” finances
Insufficient money to provide for lovers a quality life and even sponsor outings leaves the relationship at crossroads.
Some may decide to opt-out for green pastures elsewhere.
5. Over possessiveness
Most of the university students once they start dating each other they hold each other hostage. Want to have all the time with this “babe”, want to go to lectures together, and want to have all her /his time. There is no space, as a result, one of the participants feels offended and in the attempt to look for freedom there is a breakup.
6. The graduation gown
Most students who engage in relationships terminate them immediately after graduation.
7. The cheating problem
There is too much unfaithfulness in campus relationships. Think of it a guy dating three girls in the same university! A girl with three guys all of them as “LOVERS” eventually this game is discovered by either of the participants and eventually a breakup remains the only option.
8. Tight schedule,
Too much academic engagement in the university, from attending lectures to assignments to research to group discussion, CATs and Exams results in little or no time to spend with your partner “love”.
Consequently, it becomes boring and some opt to look for another partner who will create time.
9. Identity crisis
Most university students enter into relationships before they discover who they are and what they want. Their lack of identity ruins their relationship later in life once they realise whom they want in life.
Most of them are driven by emotions and infatuation as a result, their taste of what they want keeps changing day in day out leading to the failure of many relationships fail.
There are many reasons why relationships on campus fail, maybe you can identify with some, but remember it’s normal and natural for people to part ways.
Remember it is better to break a relationship than break a marriage.